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      <image:caption>About the author Alice Grutman is a licensed couples therapist serving clients in California and Washington. She specializes in betrayal recovery, trust, attachment, and relationship repair, helping individuals and couples navigate affairs, emotional affairs, and other relationship injuries with honesty, accountability, and compassion. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, and current relationship research, Alice helps people move beyond blame to better understand what happened, rebuild safety, and decide what comes next. Through her writing, Alice makes complex relationship science practical and accessible so readers can better understand their relationships, have difficult conversations with greater confidence, and build stronger, more secure connections.</image:caption>
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