Couples Therapy in California and washington
When your relationship feels unstable, overwhelming, or like it’s falling apart… you don’t have to navigate it alone.
I help couples and individuals navigate betrayal, attachment wounds, and non-monogamy- so you can rebuild trust, feel more secure, and move forward with clarity.
Relationships take work- but they shouldn’t feel this hard all the time.
You might find yourselves:
Having the same argument no matter how hard you try and fix it
Avoiding conversations so they don’t turn into conflict- or shutting down to keep the peace
Feeling more like roommates than connected partners
Struggling to rebuild trust after conflict, betrayal, or opening your relationship
Not sure how things got to this point- or what to do next
At some point, you may start to wonder:
“Can this get better- or are we missing something important?”
Support for when your relationship feels uncertain, painful, or harder than you expected
Relationships can be deeply meaningful- and deeply challenging.
Sometimes the work is rebuilding after a rupture or betrayal.
Sometimes you’re navigating non-monogamy and feeling more overwhelmed than you expected.
Sometimes you’re stuck in patterns that keep repeating, no matter how hard you try to change them.
And sometimes you’re not even sure what’s happening- you just know something doesn’t feel right.
My approach helps you slow things down, understand what’s happening beneath the surface, and begin to respond to each other differently- so you can move forward with more clarity, connection, and emotional safety.
How I can help you move forward:
Support that meets you where you are- whether you’re rebuilding trust, navigating non-monogamy, or trying to understand what’s happening in your relationship.
Couples Therapy
Get out of the same patterns, communicate differently, and start feeling more connected and secure in your relationship.
Affair & Betrayal Recovery
Rebuild trust after betrayal, make sense of what happened, and begin to move forward- together or apart- with clarity.
Polyamory & Consensual Non-Monogamy
Navigate non-monogamy with more clarity and emotional safety- whether you’re opening your relationship, managing jealousy, or trying to stay connected as things shift.
Hi, I’m Alice-
A couples therapist specializing in attachment, betrayal, and non-monogamy
I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck in painful patterns, overwhelmed by conflict, or unsure of what’s happening in their relationship.
Many of the people I work with are navigating betrayal, opening their relationship, or trying to reconnect after things have started to feel distant, tense, or confusing.
My approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, with additional trainings in trauma and EMDR. This means we don’t just talk about what’s happening- we slow things down, understand the patterns underneath it, and begin to shift how you respond to each other in real time.
I bring a warm, direct, and collaborative style to this work. My goal is to help you feel more clarity, emotional safety, and connection- whatever direction your relationship is moving in.
