Couples Therapy in California and washington

When your relationship feels uncertain, painful, or stuck, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

I help couples and individuals navigate relationship challenges- whether that means rebuilding trust, shifting patterns, exploring new relationship structures, or finding clarity about what comes next.

Relationships take work- but they’re not meant to feel this hard all the time.

You might find yourselves:

  • Having the same argument over and over

  • Walking on eggshells or avoiding certain conversations

  • Feeling more like roommates than partners

  • Struggling to reconnect after conflict or betrayal

  • Unsure how things got to this place

At some point, many couples start to wonder:

“Is there something we can fix- or is something else happening here?”

Support for relationship repair, uncertainty, and change

Relationships can be deeply meaningful- and deeply challenging.

Sometimes the work is rebuilding after betrayal. Sometimes it’s learning how to communicate differently.

And sometimes it’s making sense of uncertainty or change.

My approach helps you slow things down, understand what’s happening beneath the surface, and move forward with clarity and care.

Ways I can support you:

Whether you’re working to repair your relationship, navigate betrayal, explore non-monogamy, or make sense of uncertainty, support is tailored to where you are.

Couples Therapy

Reconnect, understand your patterns, and build a more secure, connected relationship.

Affair & Betrayal Recovery

Heal after betrayal, rebuild trust, and make sense of what comes next.

Polyamory & Consensual Non-Monogamy

Explore or navigate non-monogamy with intention, honesty, and emotional safety.

Hi, I’m Alice

I’m a couples therapist providing relationship therapy for adults in California and Washington.

I help individuals and couples break out of painful patterns, heal from past hurts, and create more secure, connected relationships.

My work is grounded in:

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • The Gottman Method

  • EMDR and trauma therapy

I bring a warm, direct, and collaborative approach to helping you move toward clarity- not confusion.

I also support individuals and couples who feel unsure about what comes next in their relationship, helping them move toward clarity with care.

How to get started

Step 1:

Book a free consultation

We’ll talk about what’s bringing you in and whether or not we’re a good fit.

Step 2:

Complete intake forms

You’ll fill out paperwork through a secure client portal.

Step 3:

Begin with a structured assessment

The first three sessions help us understand your relationship, patterns, and goals so therapy can be tailored to you.

You’re not alone.

You don’t have to keep having the same conversation without change.

Whether you’re navigating conflict, betrayal, disconnection, or uncertainty, therapy can help you move forward with clarity and support.