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Affair and Infidelity Therapy in California and Washington

Affair recovery therapy can help couples navigate the aftermath of cheating, emotional affairs, or other forms of betrayal. Using evidence-based approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, we focus on healing betrayal trauma, rebuilding trust, and creating a clear path forward- together or apart.

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Has there been a betrayal in your relationship?

Maybe you’ve recently discovered your partner has been having an affair.

Or maybe there there were signs- and you tried to trust what you were told.

Now everything feels uncertain.

You might feel numb, angry, devastated- or all of it at once.

What you thought was true about your relationship suddenly feels shaken.

You may be wondering:

Can I ever trust them again?

What does this mean about me?

Is there even a path forward?

This is what betrayal does. It doesn’t just hurt- it disrupts your sense of safety, connection, and reality.

Affair recovery therapy can help.

It may feel impossible now, but you can make sense of things again. You can find a path forward. You can feel secure in your life again. And I can help you get there.

  • Specialized therapy that focuses on repairing an affair, betrayal, or rupture in the relationship. I have specialized training that allows me to take you through this three-part process.

  • The first three sessions are assessment-focused, so I can deeply understand you, your partner, and your relationship.

    • The session is joint

    • The next two sessions are individual

    This allows me to understand both of your experiences- and the patterns between you- so our work is tailored, not generic.

    Atonement. Attunement. Attachment.

    Not just moving on- but actually repairing what was broken.

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    Infidelity is a form of betrayal trauma- and it can take many forms:

    • Sexual or emotional affairs

    • Hidden addictions or substance use

    • Financial secrecy or deception

    At it’s core, betrayal trauma happens when trust is broken in a way that threatens the safety of the relationship.

At the end of the day, I want you to know:

You can rebuild trust.

You can begin healing.

You can chart a path forward.

Even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.

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Is Affair recovery right for you?

Affair counseling is a good fit for you if you…

  • Have experienced an affair or another form betrayal

  • Feel stuck in cycles of mistrust, anxiety, or disconnection

  • Notice that the pain isn’t resolving- even when you try to move forward

  • Want to understand what happened without making things worse

  • Are unsure whether to repair or separate- but want clarity first

What we’ll work on

With affair counseling, you can…

Rebuild trust- through clarity, consistency, and emotional safety

(Not just promises, but real change)

Interrupt painful communication cycles

And learn how to talk about the affair without re-traumatizing each other

Understand the “why” behind what happened- without excusing it

So you can move out of confusion and into clarity

Reconnect emotionally and physically

At a pace that actually feels safe for both of you

Decide your path forward- together or separately

From a grounded, informed place (not panic or pressure)

Your story is welcome here.

Your story is welcome here.

Your relationship is welcome here.

Affairs don’t happen in a vacuum- and healing doesn’t happen through surface-level conversations.

This work is deeper, slower, and more intentional.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

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